Is there a blog that accounts what women do to abuse men in a similar fashion? calling them “worthless faggot” if the men turns the woman down or how you’re a pussy for taking a woman’s abuse? I’m a biological female (genderfluid) but I kind of just hate seeing one side of a massive story.
i asked this, i’m not even gonna try to be anonymous. i think it’s important to see both sides of the gendered story.
Also I’m really glad to see that you say that this isn’t a weapon designed to invalidate male survivors, or to expose them in such a manner:
"An underlying concern I have at the moment regarding such a blog about male survivors is the ongoing weaponization of the male survivor specifically to attempt to invalidate the existence of the female survivor. This is a huge issue in many “gender movements” that exist independently of feminism. I do not want male survivors to be exposed to this.
Just so everyone can see and understand: I am not willing to use this blog officially as a weapon to attempt to invalidate the male survivor. That is my personal philosophy, and I personally denounce any use of the stories, posts, images, or otherwise posted to this blog in an attempt to do so. I believe that many of my fellow feminists would agree with my stance, as well as the inverse stance. “
I really hope some of the other sides of the gender line emerge. It’s nice to see a place where people can really safely open up for the first time or just share their stories in general. If ANYONE knows where I (Spooky) can find the accounts of these male survivors on a tumblr blog, I’d love to follow it and read every post just as I do with this blog.